Nothing in life takes the place in your heart reserved for a best
friend. You might laugh when I say it is a horse that owns that spot,
but if you knew the story behind it, you would know why. Because, well,
there will never be another horse like him...
My
brother, Ralph, age 17, was finally on his way home. For a year and
half, he had battled leukemia, and was returning home from Seattle,
where he had received a bone marrow transplant from a non-familial
donor. It was a long road to home...paved with heartache, hope,
disappointment, strength, love and God's grace. We were in the dead
heat of summer, guest ranch in full swing, and I was anxiously awaiting
my brother and mom's arrival. Six months earlier, I didn't know if I
would ever see my brother again, and I had not had the chance to get to
Seattle to see him through any of his treatment. There was family,
jobs, and loose ends at home that needed to be watched over, so their
coming home symbolized so much for all of us. Finally, down the dusty
road, came their car, pulling into the ranch. Thank you Lord, they were
home!
As Ralph stepped from the vehicle, tears began
to flow down my face. He was here. Really here. Pale, somehwhat
fragile, weakened from months of chemotherapy, radiation, medication,
and transplant. But he was breathing, alive, and standing in front of
me, hat crooked sideways and a smile on his face. "I'm home, Sis."
As
the summer went on, Ralph became restless. He had strict instructions
to be careful in the sunlight; a weakened immune system left him
vulnerable to the slightest illness and bacterial diseases. The barnyard was the last place he was supposed to be. But Ralph,
needed to breathe fresh air, see and feel the world around him, and
touch a horse. During his treatment, his horse had gone lame, and had
to be sold. It was yet another blow. Ralph loved his horses,
passionately.
So, one quiet afternoon lent itself to a
car ride to town together. I had some errands to run for the ranch, and
Ralph decided to tag along for company. We discussed girls, music, and
inevitably...horses. Our conversations frequently turned to the
favorite subject. Confirmation, bloodlines, dreams of owning many, many
horses in the future... Stopping at the gas station, we picked up a
local paper; flipping to the ranch classifieds first was the usual
routine. The rest of the news could wait. As I glanced over the horse
ads, I came across one that caught my eye. Everything sounded right in
the ad, so we decided what the heck? One of our favorite
pastimes...looking at nags, well breds, and somewhats. Any excuse for a
road trip to look at horse is NEVER a waste of time in our book! So,
errands aside, we set out to horse shop!
We drove
along, counting mile markers, and watching road signs. Finally,
reaching the correct address, we pulled in the driveway. Two chestnut
horses picked their heads up, watching us as we got out. One looking a
little older than the other, and a little rougher around the edges,
wandered his way to the gate. The other stayed back, watching from a
distance. The owner came to greet us, carrying a halter with her.
Catching both horses, I asked questions, and looked over the horses.
The younger one, "Cruz", caught my eye. Ralph quietly observed from a
distance. I could see his interest was also piqued by the younger
horse, and I think the horse was eyeballing him. As Ralph touched the
horse, a grin spread across his face. The horse turned to sniff at
him. I knew this horse was coming home with my brother. He had been a
college girl's project at Montana State, and she now needed the funds to
finish school. If we weren't sold already on his looks, his
disposition had us writing the check. Quickly. Ralph became the proud
owner of a chestnut quarter horse gelding with, two hind socks, and a
white star in his face. We didn't have a trailer, but assured the lady
we would be back that afternoon to pick him up.
As we
drove down the road, Ralph was all smiles. I asked him, "What are you
going to name him? Are you going to keep his name?" Ralph answered,
"No. I think he needs a new name. Something to make him mine. Do you
have any ideas?" We ran through the usual list of names, but nothing
fit. Finally, I asked him, "Who is someone that inspires you?" Ralph
thought a while, and answered, "Well, I have always been a Dallas
Cowboys fan, and my favorite player as a boy was Emmitt Smith." And so
it was... Emmitt was the horse's name.
We brought
Emmitt home that evening. As we pulled in the barnyard, we were
welcomed by Mom, Dad, and the whole ranch gang. Everyone knew what it
meant to Ralph to have this horse. I was able to be a part of something special. I couldn't be there for Ralph during his treatment, but I could be there to start a new chapter of his life. This was a new beginning...
It's
been 7 1/2 years since that day Ralph met Emmitt. It's still one of my
favorite days and memories. Ever. Together, they have climbed
mountains, guided hunters, chased horses, and led mules. Somedays, I am
not sure which is more bull-headed and ornery of the two.
Occasionally, others are lucky enough to throw a leg over this horse,
but nobody gets Emmitt like Ralph. Nobody. Their relationship is the
culmination of strength, heart, and grit. None of which Ralph could not
have survived without. They started a new journey of healing and
growing together. Emmitt gave something to Ralph that no man ever
could... A bond that can never be broken. Hats off to you, Emmitt!
